I personally never found it useful to just ignore something that made me uncomfortable, or delete all traces of it from my life. It often ended up just biting me somewhere painful because I wasn't aware of what was happening with it.

I guess I think I can't make a good decision without knowing all relevant information (and my definition of what's relevant is very wide). The exception being tech stuff - I never found it interesting enough to stay awake through one of the manuals. :s

But not everyone sees things the same way I do, obviously. Some people find it easier to block out everything to do with that event. I don't know if blindly repressing is a good idea, but I certainly don't believe anyone should live in the past. I guess I'm saying that I go over the problem, see it from all the angles I can, see what I can learn from it, then move on. Since I'm moving on, I don't need to avoid the source of the ex-problem.

But then, it only works for me for sure. No one else I know has tried that.

On another note, I'm going to Malacca end dec, with my friends. It certainly won't be what I dreamed of a few short months ago. but it will definitely be fun. And who knows, it may be better this way.

Toodles,
Eve

Yet another ring on the tree at10:47 PM

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