Monday, July 16, 2007
I guess I'm getting used to being hated by now.
I'm not sure that's a good thing...but hey. Everyone's entitled to tempers and feelings and so on.
Some of them I can't do anything about. Some of them, I'm trying to change because I recognise that that's a flaw and they shouldn't have to put up with it. Sometimes, I just try to change because I care about the person, a lot.
But I know I'm not what any given person's ideal of me is. It's difficult - that's kind of individualised and very different for each person. They're not ideal either. But that's okay.
You pick what the person you most care about wants to see and see if you would like to see that too, then change yourself, work towards it, until it's the case. Isn't that how you grow?
Eve.